If you're not skilled or bold enough to try to talk to girls during the day it can be a really difficult city," says James.(iv) "Kings Cross sucks in a huge percentage of the city's most attractive women at night, leaving far less for other places.
So, if the Cross is not your style, you'd think hot girls don't go to bars much."(v) "The extremely high cost of living and spectacular property prices understandably can make some women fairly cautious in their choice of mate.
In many respects, the cliche is true; Melbourne is a more enlightened city than the other Aussie capitals."Property prices and the cost of living are not horrendous (like Sydney), so the city seems a little bit less status-oriented, than Sydney or Perth.
Another interesting thing about Melbourne is that the people seem to travel a lot more than the other capital cities, which makes them more worldly," says James.
Recently, I ran into a charming gentleman by the name of James Maclane, a dating coach who teaches men the essential art of attracting women and was surprised when he rated Sydney one of the best places in the country to go out on the pull. So let's take them one at a time and hear what James has to say.1.
James and his team at Social Coach have worked all over Australia helping men with their social and romantic skills and also sniffed around nightclubs and bars in all our major cities. Adelaide"Seriously, hot girls will come and pick you up if you can dress OK and hold their eye contact," says James.
James says these are his impressions of Brisbane, as "I've spent the least amount of time here of any of the cities".4.
If you'd like to check out James's website and his services, go here.Christian said all the dating data he'd seen fits the same pattern: In Australia, dating site RSVP does an annual study to gauge attitudes to dating. It showed while four out of five people said they would date outside our own race, only half actually had. It's a bit more complex than that, according to Denton Callandar from the Kirby Institute at the University of New South Wales."Racial bias feeds into every single aspect of our social lives," he said."So it's not surprising that we would find the same types of racial inequality that we see in society broadly, in people's sexual and romantic lives as well.""No one likes to be called a racist but the reality is that we are living in a world that has been, for centuries, one based on systems of racial inequality - so it's the legacy of those systems that we're seeing play out today and exist in our private lives".White Label Dating® is the world’s leading online dating provider. We help media brands, affiliates and entrepreneurs effortlessly create their own online dating site or network. Canberra"Canberra seems to be an oasis of highly-educated, cultured, enlightened, reasonably well paid men in high level positions in the public service," says James."Guys really struggle here because of a relative shortage of women.I'd bet any half decent woman living here would have a very easy time of it with dating," he says.Compared with Sydney, it's very friendly and both sexes seem to have a better sense of style."It also has a really social, fun-to-be-around bar and cafe scene.Unlike many of the other cities, the bars and clubs aren't purely pick-up joints or meat markets; they're just nice places to hang out in," says James.5.He also says that, because of the huge focus many Sydneysiders have on their careers, many professional men aren't particularly masculine and many professional women aren't particularly feminine."Most exercise regimes seem to focus on the gym/running for both sexes rather than, say, masculine sports for men and/or ballet and salsa for women," says James."I regularly see groups of eight immaculately-presented women sitting face-to-face at a corner table, seemingly expecting some super-confident, handsome guy to come up and make a sincere attempt at getting to know them in front of her seven friends," says James. Brisbane James says it's roughly a 50-50 gender split of attractive people in Brisvegas."Obviously it's got great weather a lot of the year.Guys who learn a bit about style and go beyond the printed T-shirt once in a while might do really well," says James."There's plenty of party action on the Gold Coast; skinny, buxom platinum blondes and partying tourists galore and they're just waiting for strong confident and athletic locals to come along and join them."Again for any brighter guys who are struggling in Brisbane you may want to give Sydney a try; a little bit of masculinity can go a fair way in the better suburbs, particularly if you up it in the style stakes," he says.