Do not assume there is something wrong with you or your profile.
Below is a list of reasons I know occur simply from talking to the girls I dated or from talking to friends.
Just remember that your email is not the only one she’s received recently…she may have received a dozen in the last week.
Depending on how she dates, she may love your profile but feel uncomfortable contacting you because she’s already talking to someone else.
Don’t assume that no response is a rejection because there is a chance they’ve not even read it yet.
Email Box Comparison If you know any girls who use online dating, ask them how many emails they receive regularly.
These people may be at the bar every night or having dates all the time.Part of this may be showing inactive profiles to encourage other people to sign up which, while not “right”, may be well within their “rights” (that is, you create the profile but they technically own it).Knowing what I know now, I wish I would have removed my pictures and any text so that even if the service did try this at least there would be nothing to see. Occasionally you may even get a response from someone you emailed months ago apologizing that they hadn’t been online for a while or had been very busy (this happened to me twice).At some point online dating may have sounded interesting and they created a profile but never really did anything more than upload their picture and look around.Now they check their account occasionally to make themselves feel good based on all the emails they are getting but they never respond to anyone.I have to believe that some people, especially shy people who may be drawn to this type of dating, have the best intentions but once communication begins become fearful and cannot follow through.Other Issues A friend who uses online dating will absolutely not talk to engineers because her ex-husband is an engineer.Many sites do show the last login for members which is helpful but many will not get more specific than “Has not logged in for 1 month”.General Reluctance Never forget that while online dating is gaining some acceptance it is still very new.There is a good chance you will want to be hard on yourself when after five or ten attempts at contacting people you’ve had no responses.Before you label yourself as the “Worst Profile Creator Ever” or anything else equally untrue, review the reasons why you may not get responses.