But if your headline is going to advertise how “unique” you are – and how strict your parameters for the perfect woman can be – then don’t expect to get many responses.“Vegan biker and techie looking for blonde, in shape, environmentally conscious gluten-free artist” isn’t exactly going to reel ‘em all in.This is just a more annoying, particular variant of The Captain Obvious.It’s also effective to phrase your headline as a question.
The Most Special Snowflake Headline It’s great that you’re a vegan, a Jehovah’s Witness, a Cross Fit enthusiast, and a CEO who only dates models.
Either way, ellipses and question marks make it seem like you’re having a conversation – without you even having to say anything directly.
So if you’re not into the bad-boy thing, what about something like …The former invites a woman to send you a message while the latter jokingly invites a woman to drop you a line if she is all of the above.
You’ll see smart ways to differentiate yourself with your headline in a bit.
The Sadsack Headline Please don’t represent yourself as a desperate loser burdened by years of baggage. The message you’re sending with headlines like these is that you’re unhappy, weighed down with tons of issues, and resigned to a sad fate of online dating.