These are two of the main questions that go into figuring out which option works better for you.
if we were meant to be together, she'd like me for my real personality... I'm not saying you need to contort your personality into new and bizarre shapes to please a woman - because that really would be unhealthy. Sure, he's pretty disgusting PHYSICAL specimen of masculinity - but that just proves my point.
I don't feel like I should have to change for anyone..." and so on, when the subject of What Women Want comes up. Instead, I'm saying that you should be the best "you" that you can possibly be. Just think of ANY 'dreamboat' of a man that women drool openly over. Does that greasy comb-over or middle-aged paunch matter when it comes to women? Just look at some of the women he's dated (and even married! And no, it's not the money that's formed the basis of his success with women - it's his CONFIDENCE and POWER, the things that LED to his money, that females find attractive. Self-confidence is the number-one attractive quality that a man can have. If you have faith in yourself, think highly of yourself, and expect -not HOPE, but EXPECT - others to feel the same way, they will.
Once you've got that down pat, the rest will be easy. What do you need to have that will make a woman want to KEEP spending time with you, KEEP investing effort into your relationship, and KEEP enjoying your company? Some guys prefer to be complacent in their shortcomings. It was because, once he began to believe in himself, his whole aura changed - and he became irresistible to women.
We've already discussed what attracts females to men. It's common to hear things like, "She should just accept me as I am... Women everywhere love Bond (and men everywhere want to BE Bond.)Just about any superhero - Batman. Even Spiderman, nerdy little Tobey Maguire, managed to win the heart of sexy Mary-Jane. Donald Trump is another fantastic example of how to attract beautiful women.