When you are this person, you won’t have to “play games” and will naturally activate a man’s natural desire to pursue.
Since you are living your life and aren’t relying on his approval to make you happy, he automatically steps up and tries to carve space for himself in your life.
Intentionally manipulating a guy or playing games will always backfire because no guy wants to feel like he’s being yanked along on a destination-less journey.
Plus, he’ll be able to see right through what you’re doing and it will come across as desperate, which is the ultimate turnoff.
There were forces working against us and I didn’t want to make things worse by being unaccommodating.
My schedule was more flexible than his so it made sense that I should work around his schedule, right?
While in theory that makes sense, in reality, Craig started pulling away more and more.
So go out there and do your thing, be happy without him (whether him is in the picture or not), and let him be the icing on your perfect cake, rather than the flour, the eggs, the sugar and whatever other ingredients go into making a cake!
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