It helps if you’re already turned on before you talk on the phone.That way, you’re not going from, “Listen to this annoying ass thing that happened to me at the grocery store today,” to “you like that?”Your partner will give their own clues as to whether or not you’re hitting the right buttons.You might find yourself following along with your partner’s imagination, or you might be taking the reins yourself.And feel free to use a pet bedroom name if you have one.Lauren says to draw out your words using soft whispers and sprinkle in a few playful sighs here and there while you’re talking.The rap DJ was meant to send his money details over to his love interest ahead of a date coming up the following week, but has been left red-faced after sending them across to his fans instead.
While some are completely bemused by the situation, others are highly amused and thus ripping him to shreds. Lauren suggests “setting the stage” with a quick call or flirty text that will make your partner really look forward to talking with you.Try sending off a “can’t wait to hear your voice tonight,” to leave them wanting more.Lauren suggests, “Imagine I’m a sex robot you can program to do whatever you want. Imagine if I had done [insert alternative sexy activity].” Some jumping off points, should you need: “What if you realized I was wearing a strap-on under my bikini?” or “What if we were invited by a sexy woman on the beach to have a threesome?If you’re shy, your partner might only need to know that you’re a willing participant to take off and lead for you.Another way to lead your partner into it if you’re both feeling awkward, is to set up a roleplay scenario. For example, “Remember when we were in Aruba and I was teasing you on the beach with my cleavage and later the sex was soooo hot?You’re not obligated to only talk about stuff you’ve done or necessarily will do, during phone sex.Let’s say, you really love the fantasy of public sex, but you know, don’t have any actual plans to follow through on that.There’s nothing stopping you from exploring a phone sex fantasy of getting it on in a raft in the lake when the lake..in your mind.Think of as many different scenarios as you can: the library, the back of your car, Paris, in an airplane, at a Costco, etc.